Stanley J. Bator Jr. , 54, of Rutherford, NJ died on Nov 23, 2009. Born in Secaucus, NJ. , Stan was the devoted husband of Patricia Westervelt Bator and the son of the late Stanley and Dolores Bator. He was a devoted "dad" to Bogey and Eagle, his two furry children. Stan was an avid sports enthusiast and spent most of his time tracking his beloved Yankees, Jets and Devils. Prior to his illness, he enjoyed skiing, golfing, kayaking and biking. He was a volunteer at Hackensack Hospital and a supporter of the Brain Injury Association of New Jersey, which was instrumental in his rehabilitation. He was a graduate of Hudson Catholic High School and Montclair University where he received his undergraduate and Master's degrees. He is survived by his wife Patricia, Sisters; Elaine Fenwick and Dr Elizabeth Bator, In-laws Mary Westervelt, Margaret and George Critelli, Helen Westervelt, John and Vera Westervelt and 10 nieces and nephews, Chrissy, Andy, Mickey, Jason, Sean, Katelyn, John Paul, Samantha, Jacqueline and Rocky. Funeral Saturday 9:00am from the Collins Calhoun Funeral Home at 19 Lincoln Avenue, Rutherford NJ. Followed by a 9:45 Mass of Christian Liturgy in St. Mary's RC Church Rutherford Entombment Holy Cross Mausoleum, No. Arlington. Family will receive friends Friday 2-4 and 7-9pm. The family would prefer donations in his memory be made to Brain Injury Association of New Jersey, 825 Georges Road, Second Floor, North Brunswick, NJ 08902