When out Tutini family would visit your Tutini family what a gathering it would be 10 kids and our parents.  Aunt Vera and Mom in the kitchen.  Mom would have a baby on her lap and Aunt Vera busy in the kitchen making her meatballs and spaghetti and have some cold cuts while you wait for dinner, not to mention the fresh Italian bread and the pastries from the bakery.  Dad and Uncle Ralph ouside in the driveway with the hood of the car up and looking at the engine.  What wonderful memories and Aunt Vera, I never heard a harsh word she was always happy to see us and with a warm hug and kiss and of course food eat something are you hungry?  Those are the memories I will cherish for the rest of my life and I feel your sorrow and understand you pain, I love you all, your cousin Leecee.