Tom, You will genuinely be missed.I looked forward to seeing you whenever I came over to the house to swim. Your friendly conversations and compliments were always appreciated by me. Many times you were the only one to laugh at my jokes.I enjoyed the family dinners we had at Enza's restaurant and the outdoor concerts we attended together in Ridgewood.Additionally it was a great comfort to me when you came to babysit our children, Zachary and Lucas. Not only did the kids love spending time with you but all our animals seemed to flock to you. Even our most skittish cat came out of hiding when you were over. The most amazing thing to me however was that throughout your long and sometimes painful illness, you never complained. You always had a smile on your face and a kind word on your lips. Fondly, your son-in -law Scott